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Be yourself. Be yourself . Be yourself .
This is usually the answer to most of our inquires. Yet those who gave this advice cant explain further how to actually be oneself.
Years ago i tried to follow that piece of advice and go find myself. That was in the midst of my rebellious teenage years , so finding myself consisted mainly of too much loud music , piercing and saying no to any order. Now that my mind has changed abit , i don’t think that that was the correct road to being me. But the mystery yet continue , how can anyone be oneself.
Being oneself turned actually to be the easiest thing to do. I can almost hear some of you saying how. The answer is simple enough.
” throw away your mask ”
”huuuh! mask ! what mask! ” . The mask here , dear readers, is the one we unconsciously wear while socializing with most of the people in our lives. If you are not sure if you actually have a mask , then ask yourself this simple question, ” do i act differently with some people ? do i laugh and act more freely with my best friend while i change to uptight with others ?”. If the answer is yes , then i am afraid that you aint free of your mask yet.
How to find that little man inside may be different from person to another because at the end we are not the same. Yet there’s general tips that might help set you on the path…
“There is but one cause of failure and that is
a man’s lack of faith in his true self.”
~ William James
The liberation of that mask is a long self discovery journey that one day all of us has to go through , yet the people around might not understand what are you doing or why you are doing this but dont give up because they dont matter , you do.
The girl in tight shoe.